I am so sorry. The most important thing is that everyone is safe and sound. You will begin the rebuilding process and this dark hour shall pass. Think of it as one door closing and another new door opening.
We here on TD, are are thinking of you and your family and you'll be in our prayers. If there is anything we can do to help just ask away. I am a CPA, and if you have any tax questions, please pm me. I'd be happy to lend a helping hand.